Ideas for Observing Lent in the Domestic Church

Ideas for Observing Lent in the Domestic Church

Ideas for Observing Lent in the Domestic Church

LENT: a time to grow closer to God.
A time to take up practices that lead us toward him and to leave behind practices that distract us from him.

“Unless there is a Good Friday in your life, there can be no Easter Sunday.”  – Ven. Fulton Sheen

“Apart from the cross, there is no other ladder by which we may get to heaven.” – St. Rose of Lima

  • Read Prince of Peace Catholic Church’s The Shape of Lent and the Paschal Mystery 2022 and consider participating in the community-wide weekly sacrifices for Lent.
  • Pray, go to mass, confession, and adoration of the Blessed Sacrament as often as you can.
  • Read the Bible daily; even just a chapter a day! Read Scripture and stories of the saints to children.
  • Home décor: your home can reflect the penitential season (use burlap; cactus instead of flowers; simple candles and religious items on tables, mantles, etc). Incorporate the liturgical color of purple.
  • Movie sacrifice idea: instead of a favorite show, watch a Catholic saints story or a religious film (free with your parishioner FORMED account). Or, use that time to read about the Faith or lives of the saints.
  • Make pretzels:pretzels were first baked during Lent (story here) because they can be made with water, flour, and salt. The shape came from a posture of prayer: arms crossed and hands on opposite shoulders. Recipe here.
  • Save money to give to the poor: brainstorm ideas for how you can do this as a family. Perhaps eat at home instead of going out and give the extra $$ to charity. Are there little luxuries that can be sacrificed and the money donated? Some families might choose to do an offering jar. As a family, place all your spare change in the jar for the entire season of Lent, and let your kids put it in the offering plate on Easter Sunday.
  • Pray the “Stations of the Cross” on Fridays. If you can’t go to the one at church, it is simple to pray them at home. Click here to print out the prayers (and pictures that children can color).
  • Make a prayer chain: write a person or prayer request on 40 strips of paper. Assemble them into a paper chain. Remove one link per day, and pray for that thing with your kids.
  • Build a Lenten Cross. Similar to an Advent wreath, you light one or more candles each night during dinner for the entire Lenten season.
  • Sign up for “Holy Heroes” free Lenten adventure (kids ages 5-12): com
  • Make a salt dough “crown of thorns” to place on your table: link here. For each Lenten sacrifice made, pull a toothpick out. The goal is to remove all the “thorns” by Easter. (Additionally, you can paint it gold and decorate with flowers where the “thorns” once were and use as an Easter centerpiece.)
  • Bake an edible “crown of thorns” for Ash Wednesday or Good Friday: simply braid bread dough into a crown shape and bake. Push pretzel sticks (‘thorns’) into the crown as soon as it comes out of the oven. (idea here)
  • Similar to the crown of thorns activity, you could also do “sacrifice beans.” On the table is a bowl filled with dried beans next to a jar. When you make a sacrifice for Jesus, put a bean in the jar. Then, on Easter morning, children wake up to find that the beans that have accumulated in the jar during Lent have been changed into yummy jelly beans (or other such candies).
  • Make some empty tomb crafts with kids. Try this Calvary Hill Plant that grows throughout Lent. Decorate with flowers on Easter morning and add a little statue of Jesus outside the empty tomb to represent the risen Lord. Click here for more. Kids love this fun project and you can use it as your Easter centerpiece!
  • Try to set a daily goal to sacrifice in these areas:
    1. Diet: sacrifice a food or drink you love
    2. Physical: do something physically difficult every day (push-ups; daily walk; run a mile; etc.)
    3. Spiritual: spend daily time with God in prayer and Scripture

“The Lord measures out perfection neither by the multitude nor the magnitude of our deeds, but by the manner in which we perform them.” – St. John of the Cross

22 February: Feast of the Chair of Saint Peter

22 February: Feast of the Chair of Saint Peter

22 February: Feast of the Chair of Saint Peter. While it may seem like a strange feast, the church is not just celebrating a piece of furniture today. This Feast has been celebrated since the early Church and has multifold meaning. First, it does refer to the actual chair that Peter sat on as the first pope. Officials in the Roman Empire would sit on chairs for official work. This tradition was replicated in the Church. Cathedra is Latin for “chair” or “throne” and denominates the chair or seat of a bishop, hence “cathedral” denominates the bishop’s church in an episcopal see. The physical “chair of Peter” is encased in a sculpture designed by Bernini located in Saint Peter’s Basilica in Rome. In the apse of the Basilica, a great bronze throne encloses the wooden chair from the ninth century, believed to be Peter’s own chair. On the chair itself, Bernini depicts three scenes from Peter’s life: the giving of the keys (symbolizing authority to lead the Church), the washing of feet (symbolizing Peter’s office is one of service), and Jesus’ instruction to “Feed my sheep” (pointing to Peter’s role as teacher and guide). Below the chair are statues of four doctors of the Church (Saints Athanasius, John Chrysostom, Ambrose, Augustine). Above the throne is an oval window with the Holy Spirit depicted as a dove. The symbolism of this great work of art is clear: the Holy Spirit guides the Church through Saint Peter and his successors, who authoritatively teach the Word of God through Sacred Scripture and Tradition. This feast day is also about the spiritual authority bestowed upon Saint Peter by Jesus: “You are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. I will give you the keys to the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.” (Matt. 16:18-19). Pope Benedict XVI wrote: “So what was the ‘Chair’ of St Peter? Chosen by Christ as the ‘rock’ on which to build the Church, he began his ministry in Jerusalem… The Church’s first ‘seat’ was the Upper Room, and it is likely that a special place was reserved for Simon Peter in that room where Mary, Mother of Jesus, also prayed with the disciples… Then Peter went to Rome, the center of the Empire… So it is that the See of Rome, which had received the greatest of honors, also has the honor that Christ entrusted to Peter of being at the service of all the particular Churches for the edification and unity of the entire People of God… The See of Rome, after St Peter’s travels, thus came to be recognized as the See of the Successor of Peter, and its Bishop’s ‘cathedra’ represented the mission entrusted to him by Christ to tend his entire flock… Celebrating the ‘Chair’ of Peter, therefore, means attributing a strong spiritual significance to it and recognizing it as a privileged sign of the love of God, the eternal Good Shepherd, who wanted to gather his whole Church and lead her on the path of salvation.” In the fourth century, St. Jerome wrote to Pope Damascus I: “I follow no leader but Christ and join in communion with none but Your Blessedness, that is, with the chair of Peter. I know that this is the rock on which the Church has been built.”

Ideas for celebrating this feast at home:

  • Pray the Litany of St. Peter.
  • See images of the Chair of Peter here. Read more about the chair here.
  • Watch “Peter: Keeper of the Keys” on FORMED
  • A symbol for Saint Peter is keys (the keys to the kingdom). A fun feast day activity would be to make keys out of craft supplies, cookie dough, pancake batter, or bread dough.
  • Have children to design a “chair” for St. Peter out of pantry supplies (cookies, crackers, nut butters, candies, pretzels, etc). Ideas here and here.
  • For dinner, make Baked Rockfish in honor of Peter “the rock” (or any type of fish, since Peter was a fisherman!) Serve it alongside a “Golden Chair of St. Peter fruit salad

(sources: ncregister.com; simplycatholic.com; www.vaticannews.va; Franciscanmedia.org; edwardsri.com)